Let two members of our squad be AB.
Let one other member of our squad be C.
AB, I know you think that you've settled the situation. Yep, you think it's settled, but it's not. There's more than one party involved in every argument ("takes two to tango"). In your whole explanation of how your 'plan' is going to work, you didn't factor in C.
Your current 'plan' is very simple: ignoring C until the hurt/pain/bad feelings go away. Newsflash: Where got so easy?
I'm just trying to be objective.
It's fine if you think I'm pissing you off. I understand that you all have been really hurt by this, I acknowledge that you have the right to still be angry, I empathize with your feelings, and lastly I know that you need time to heal.
But does time really heal everything?